On Thursday night I went to a performance of Philip Glass’ opera Satyagraha, about the early life of Gandhi. I left in a trance, spellbound by the music and the puppetry. In front of Lincoln Center a large crowd had gathered; it took me a moment to recognize the barricades, the police vans lining Broadway, the gorgeous blue-green sheen of a large puppet of the Statue of Liberty, covering her eyes in shame, or was it misery? It was a peaceful demonstration; the protestors were chanting; it seemed as if sidewalk had become proscenium. The audience surged forward for another performance. Several people were standing at the entrance to the opera house, giving away copies of a broadsheet: The Occupied Wall Street Journal. I took one, and went home.
I was restless that night, even though it was late; I couldn’t sleep. Glass’s music is lyrical and lulling and I kept humming fragments that bubbled up. So I sat and read The Occupied Journal. I began thinking, intensely, of my friend Elisabeth, who has written so much about revolution and democracy. Elisabeth was due to arrive on Sunday for a week of lectures and research work in the Winnicott archives, an enormous project into which she had just thrown herself with her usual whole-hearted, single-minded absorption. I kept thinking, as I read the Occupied, how much she would enjoy the essays in the paper–the entire movement–and how much I would enjoy talking to her about its profound significance. I set the old-fashioned broadsheet on top of a pile of books and magazines I had put aside to share with her when she arrived.
Early the next morning came the terrible, choked phone call from Elisabeth’s beloved spouse, Christine Dunbar, that Elisabeth had suddenly collapsed and died as they were walking home from a concert.

I feel unmoored at this loss. Elisabeth was an anchor of my life.
I met Elisabeth when I was 19 years old; I had gone to her office to beg to be allowed into a seminar on the ancient Greeks she was giving at Wesleyan. I will never forget her piercing blue gaze as she listened to my answers to questions: what have you read of philosophy? what do you understand of Plato? what are you reading now? It was terrifying, and exhilarating. I had that rare feeling of meeting someone and recognizing instantly that the person would be very important in my life.
Elisabeth was my teacher for three years at university; together we read our way from Plato to Heidegger. Our teacher. So many of us were smitten by the life of the mind, under her tutelage. I remember someone asking, What is the point of a degree in philosophy? What happens with jobs? Elisabeth fixed that gaze on us, and said: “No matter what you are doing–even if you are washing dishes–at least you will know how to think, and have something interesting to think about.” Her friend Jerry Kohn said what is true for so many of us: “Some of the best conversations I ever had in my life were with Elisabeth.”
In those student days, I became Elisabeth’s cat-sitter (she was enthusiastic about taking in strays), her apartment-sitter, her book-sitter, when she traveled. (Elisabeth had a surprisingly strong nesting instinct.) And then, finally, I became her friend. In those days she had long hair and wore high boots with heels, and she was a terrific dancer, too; faculty often joined students at parties. Read more